By Terez Hartmann
Transformation through LOVE
We each have the ultimate formula for health, prosperity, and experiencing joy-filled relationships: Feel, allow and express LOVE more than worry, guilt, anger, or fear. Once the scales weigh heavier on the side of love, this is the stuff that “miracles” are made of!
While it is true that pain and adversity can be catalysts for life transformation, what if instead of finally surrendering to change after a long, hard road, you chose to ENJOY the journey and Allow the awesome Power of LOVE to work its magic?
Let’s face it, drama and trauma have been done—and overdone. Unlike change-through-pain, the path of transformation-through-love is one filled with fun, clarity, and joy! I know that some of you may be thinking “Terez, it’s easy for you to say this while you’re zooming around all blissed-out!” but I have only been able to live a life I truly love because I finally chose to stop waiting to until I was “pushed” into change by pain and started allowing myself to be “pulled” toward change by the call of inspiration and love.
On another note, ANY time I have been down-in-the-dumps, the longer I hated and resisted being where I was while seeing things as “bad” or “wrong,” the longer I would stay firmly planted in Ickyville! When I realized that the distance between despair and bliss was based solely upon my ability to let go of resistance and embrace love, I decided to bypass the middleman whenever possible and go straight to love: And friends, I’ve got to say that once you discover that all paths ultimately lead to love—and you start going willingly—you begin to tap into a magic beyond anything you’ve ever dreamed possible!
When you feel LOVE, you lack for nothing and ALLOW Transformation
Think about it: Have you noticed that when you are in the midst of a “Transformation Celebration” and are truly groovin’ on life, it’s easy to be fully present right where you ARE? The reason you seek any kind of success or positive change in your life is so that you can get to feel JUST LIKE THIS. So the more love you find in your NOW, the more you get to go straight to the finish line! An added bonus: Because you no longer need anything to change for you to be able to feel good—you are now in a place where things CAN change! And the health, relationships, money, opportunities, etc., that you’d been seeking start flowing into your life like a waterfall of total fabulousity!
Ready to feel the LOVE, baby? Use these Allowing Power Tools™ to connect with the Transformational Power of LOVE!
DO WHAT YOU LOVE NOW
The more LOVE you find NOW, the more LOVE comes later!
Instead of waiting for the planets to align or to figure out how to attach income to your passion, decide that you will give yourself the gift of spending at least some of your time doing something you love NOW—no matter what. Even if you can only dedicate 5 minutes a day to doing something you truly love, you will surprise yourself with the amount of momentum that a small, consistent act can generate!
BTW: All that I have, do, and experience now—including the extraordinary relationship I share with my husband, soul mate, best friend and creative partner of 15-plus years—began by deciding to dedicate small slices of my time to following my bliss!
COMMIT TO LOVE: Commit to THE very thing that makes life worth living!
Humans commit to many things for many different reasons, but when it all comes down to it, everything we do and every promise we keep is linked in some way to a desired end result of feeling good (AKA love). Integrity is indeed a fabulous thing, no doubt, but just imagine how your life could change if you stayed in integrity with your INNER guidance and only said yes to the things that made YOUR heart sing? Though this may sound selfish, think about what happens when others keep their promises or agreements to you only out of guilt. I don’t know about you, but when I’ve been on the receiving end of this kind of exchange, quality and fun were NOT a part of the package! On the other hand, when someone says “yes!” to me willingly from a place of clarity and love, it’s a high-fivin’-I-love-you-man kind of fiesta which bears the mark of true heart and excellence, and is an experience that benefits absolutely EVERYONE!
NOTE: If anyone ever asks you to ignore your inner guidance or to suffer on his/her behalf, this is something that is coming from a place of anything BUT love.
The Bottom Line on ALLOWING Transformation with The Power of LOVE
Love is who you ARE and what you came here to experience and express, so it’s no wonder that when you experience love, you feel physically energized and fully alive! Though suffering may sound like the “noble” thing to do, in truth, the only way misery can ever lead to positive life transformation, true success, or joy is when it becomes so intense that you finally STOP perpetuating it!
If living a life you love is what you ultimately seek, doesn’t it make sense that LOVE is the path to love? Feel and reach for love. Allow love to become both your compass and your aim, and watch as you get to stand in the glow of the end of your rainbow in THIS very moment! From where I sit as I write this tonight, I know that love can and WILL change your life!
“Love is the reason and I have the freedom to choose
My eyes are open and I am going to do what I came here to do—baby, what about you?”
From “Transformation Celebration!” ©2014 TTRH
Terez Hartman is the author of Allowing Your Success!, a professional Keynote Speaker/Workshop Facilitator, Singer-Songwriter/Recording Artist, “Allowing Adventures!” & “Savor Vacation” Facilitator, true Renaissance Woman and Visionary. She has spent the majority of her life consciously working with the Law of Attraction and “Allowing,” and owes her many years of ever-increasing professional success, constant flow of creativity, vibrant health, many extraordinary adventures, amazing relationships with positive-minded, “cream-of-the-crop” human beings and—what she feels to be her greatest allowing achievement—her extraordinary “soul-mate” marriage, to truly practicing what she teaches in her writings, presentations, adventures and music. Visit: www.AllowingYourSuccess.com or www.AllowingAdventures.com.
This article is a chapter from the book Transform Your Life! Expert Advice, Practical Tools, and Personal Stories, written by 60 real-life heroes and experts and available at www.Transformation-Publishing.com, Amazon.com, BN.com, and all ebook formats.
